Connecting with Students and Community

CONNECTING WITH SCHOOL

There’s a definite chill in the air.   It seems that just a few weeks ago we were walking around in short-sleeved shirts and now we’re reaching for sweaters and jackets.  Summer sports have given way to football.  We’re transitioning into winter with the holidays close at hand. 

Our children have been in a period of transition as well.  For some, it was the exciting (and maybe daunting) move up from elementary school to middle school -- or middle school to high school.  New teachers, new subjects, seeing old friends, making new friends. 

Our school communities play a crucial role in helping to raise a child.  As our children spend so much of their time in school, our educators and other concerned adults have significant influence on them.  Research shows that students who have a sense of belonging, that is, “school connectedness,” are more likely to do well in school and make healthy choices.  Young people who experience school connectedness believe that educators at school care about them and those who describe themselves as connected to their schools are less likely to abuse drugs and alcohol or smoke cigarettes -- they’re also more likely to stay in school and strive for better grades.

The CDC gives some tips as to how parents can help their child feel connected with their school:

•  Be an involved parent at school.

•  Make sure to read all information that comes home and attend PTA meetings whenever possible.

•  Talk to teachers and find out what your child should be doing and learning.

•  Help your child with homework and make sure that your child has the tools needed such as school supplies and space at home conducive to study.

•  Learn the rules and expectations of the school and make sure your child follows them.

•  Talk frequently, even informally, with your child’s teachers to find out how things are to going on an everyday basis.

•  Encourage your child to feel free to tell you and other concerned adults at school about problems and challenges they may face at school.

•  Encourage your child to get involved in extracurricular activities at the school and support these activities and when possible, with your presence, or coaching or mentoring.

For more information on exploring ways to enhance your child’s connectedness to their schools, some helpful websites follow:

http://www.cdc.gov/HealthyYouth/AdolescentHealth/connectedness.htm

http://www.findyouthinfo.gov/

http://cecp.air.org/download/MCMonographFINAL.pdf 

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Article Contribution by Wayne Alliance Volunteer; Eileen Smith