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Kyleigh's Law Decals Not a Violation, Court Rules

Unanimous decision made to have red stickers placed on license plates for vehicles operated by new drivers.

 

The New Jersey Supreme Court said affixing red stickers to license plates on vehicles being operated by young drivers is not a violation of their privacy, according to a report on nj.com.

The court ruled 6-0 Monday, saying the decals don't make young drivers more of a target or more vulnerable to predators.

To read the full report, click here.

This isn't the first time the law has been under attack, however. The New Jersey Appeals Court upheld the legislation in February of 2011, after two New Jersey parents tried fighting the law to say it was a violation of privacy.

Kyleigh's Law was created in 2009, named for Kyleigh D'Alessio, a Washington Township teen who died in a car crash in 2006, along with another passenger, Tanner Birch.

  • Did the Supreme Court make the right decision to keep decals as part of Kyleigh's Law?

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    • Yes. It doesn't invade the privacy of young drivers.
        17 (15%)
    • No. Decals put a target on young drivers.
        93 (84%)
    Total votes: 110
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Related Topics: Driver decals, Kyleigh's Law, and new jersey supreme court

E Paul

2:38 pm on Monday, August 6, 2012

It doesn't invade their privacy as much as it probably violates 'equal protection' (14h amendment) unless all drivers are required to declare their age on their license plate.

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Not Again!

3:17 pm on Monday, August 6, 2012

They provide a nifty profiling tool for Johnny Law as well!

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Sam Slobo

3:30 pm on Monday, August 6, 2012

Yea !!!! I'm sure our police officers are " profiling " teenagers in cars - its a gold mine for them to pick on teenagers. After all, the officers get SO much out of the experience !! It's a pleasure dealing with the pompous parents after their teenager gets stopped - I imagine. Maybe the spirit of the law is a GOOD thing. Think about it.

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Adriana

5:54 pm on Monday, August 6, 2012

Sam Slobo.. you must have had an incredible amount of horrendous dealings with a select few teenagers that have made you so horribly biased and cynical about the youth population of NJ, or perhaps you don't have children of your own, but there are thousands of responsible and conscientious teenagers who drive safely and whose parents don't swoop in to save them when they make mistakes. Drunk drivers and the elderly make up a large portion of accidents on the road, but they don't have stickers! Why are they not subject to the same profiling? What do the decals do, anyway? What information do they provide other than to alert cops of young drivers? If they alert other drivers that "this driver might be a hazard," other "road hazards" like the elderly, stressed mothers distracted by their children in the backseat, businessmen rushing to get to meetings, people with points on their licenses, and DUI offenders, should have to get similar markers. I don't even need one of the stickers and I think it's an absurd rule, considering the accident that prompted this law included a driver who didn't follow existing laws. A new law isn't needed when people aren't following them, anyway. NJ has one of the most insane list of regulations and restrictions placed on young drivers, and it really can't go much farther. Also, you have to buy the stupid decal from the State.. MONEY MONEY MONEY!

Mike H

3:35 pm on Monday, August 6, 2012

We need silver decals for the 65+

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Laura Madsen

8:52 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Mike H - You are SO right about that! And since they are upholding this ruling, it shouldn't just be "young" drivers - it should be NEW drivers. There are many people who get their licenses that are not necessarily "young" but are still gaining driving experience. In the end though, this law is a joke. New drivers, old drivers, or any drivers have the potential to drive every car out there by hopping behind the wheel. Every car could be given a red sticker.

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JRyyan

11:29 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Thank You Mike that was the first thought that came to my mind. As this state and country keeps slicing and dicing our population with labels and hyphens

Patrice Schaffer

3:48 pm on Monday, August 6, 2012

NJ needs decals for drunk drivers and child molesters not teenage drivers.

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jazzman

4:44 pm on Monday, August 6, 2012

as part of my defensive driving skills,drunk drivers side to side between the lines with braking and sometimes forgetting there headlights,now its that little red sticker and my driver awareness inside 100 ft

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Not Again!

5:24 pm on Monday, August 6, 2012

Sam,

It seems to me from reading the Patch that the majority of the Police activity is actions taken against the youth of the town. The sad irony being we move to such an area to protect our kids from crime, and with the town having little crime, our kids, become the crime. And those red stickers make it even easier to find them.

As for the Law? The Spiit may have had good intentions, but in practice I only know that a prosecutor said to me is has not accomplished what it set out to do, and the majority of kids paying fines did nothing wrong. Certainly nothing criminal or reckless. Also, know that should your child get a speeding ticket and 3 points, your insurance could go up $1000 or more a year for 3 years. And that is with perfect records for the parents.

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Lannister

11:48 pm on Monday, August 6, 2012

Well said. I'd like to know if kids are getting more or less speeding tickets now a days

PJ_Wolf

6:41 pm on Monday, August 6, 2012

The overzealous PD in Hopatcong do not descriminate, as evidenced by the number of grandmas pulled over live a swat raid

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Sir

7:10 pm on Monday, August 6, 2012

It's ok to profile kids, but not child molesters, drunk drivers, or Islamic extremists?

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Kit Rogers

11:27 pm on Monday, August 6, 2012

I am more worried about perverts who see that a young teen girl is driving and then go after them.

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Denobin

11:38 pm on Monday, August 6, 2012

I for one refuse to abide by this and I will not put my children at risk by doing so. I will openly defy this and I encourage others to do the same.

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chat5

5:20 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

I am with you Denobin!

Ruby Stanfield

12:32 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

I cannot believe this is still happening. When my oldest daughter got her license this rule upset me to no end and I thought by the time my youngest daughter got her license this would have been repealed. I am not worried about our police officers, I am worried about the perverts out their looking for teenagers to harass or molest. These stickers are making our kids targets for the crazy people!! I am appalled!!

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Edna Malyack

10:06 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

I agree with you and would like to add that if your child parks their car in a driveway facing the street you are now letting the perverts know that a minor (or two) live int the house! Even if you remove the "red tag" the velcro stays on. The last time I checked, there isn't any other reason to have velcro on your license plates!

MasterTech

5:27 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Whats next? Stars on Jewish owned cars? Stickers for the elderly? Nazi Germany was a police state also....food for thought!

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MasterTech

5:30 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Of course the police target young people...they cant afford a lawyer to fight the ticket!

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Stacie Bohr

6:39 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

I'm not for any tags on a car. First of all, should my daughter (or sons) have a red tag
on the back of her car for some perv to notice as she drives home alone at 10pm from work so she becomes easy prey? Furthermore, no one should have a tag. I don't care if you've had a dwi (put the breathalyzer in the car)), have silver hair, have had a reckless driving ticket, anything. It's big brother yet again and it's sickening.

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wayne mom

7:13 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

horrible decision. i would never allow a teenage child to drive with any such kind of id. its not the police im worried about!

kathy

6:55 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

NO STICKERS AT ALL!!! WHAT IS THIS WORLD COMING TO??? LOVE PEACE AND RESPECT !!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Madison Cyclist

7:39 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Stop over-reacting. Unless your car windows are totally blacked out any perv can see your teenage daughter driving around. This, ladies and gents, is about feeding the beast. You get a summons for Kyleigh's law and it's a) mandatory court appearance (i.e., court costs) and b) $106 fine. That's after you pay $4/pair for these stupid things that are made in China for 12.3 cents. The best part is these decals attach to the plate with velcro. So, of course, moron teenagers get their kicks from ripping the decals off their friends cars.

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Susan B.

7:53 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Let's put stickers on politicians cars, this way we can identify who comes up with these absurd regulations! I think the restrictions on teenage driving are good. The stickers are a BAD idea. I'm very disappointed with the ruling from NJ Supreme Court.

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Patrice Schaffer

10:46 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Like your comment...just saying...

MR

8:02 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Well said Adriana. Agreed Madison. No stickers...period! Lets say you're someone who is ok with using the sticker, the biggest problem is the kids getting their kicks out of taking them off the plates. Thats when you'll get the tkt for not having one! Unfair. Ridiculous.

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Patch Sucks!

11:33 am on Sunday, September 30, 2012

It's an outrage and a violation of personal privacy. The "police state" mentality of this ruling is most disturbing.

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mark spratley

8:09 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

The point is being misconstrued as the decal is so Police Officers can assertain whether or not the driver has a graduated drivers license. "IF" they see a sticker they can then see how many people are in the car. "IF" there are more than 2 people in the car then they will get pulled over. To think a "perv." will look for red stickers as opposed to looking in the window of the car is absurd. Kids drive in bunches "IF" you think "YOUR" child doesnt your naive. Of course kids dont want stickers, anything not to be identified by the police. Mrs Weeks was/is simply trying to protect other family's from losing loved ones and should be praised for pursuing this endeavor. I was party to a very bad accident which involved Tanners Uncle and in a different situation where I lost my best friend at the time Mrs. Weeks brother. When I was growing up we lost quite a few kids in automobile accidents and almost all had too many kids in the car as well as drinking. Come on, get over yourself be a parent not a friend to your kids, support Mrs. Weeks and support the courts ruling as it is "only" for "your" benefit.

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Denobin

9:50 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

While I am extremely sorry for Mrs. Weeks and your loss, it is no excuse to put children at risk and I will not praise an endevour that does so. It is not "if" but "when" a stalker lurks in a parking lot waiting for a kid to return to their now bullseyed car. It's not "if but "when" teens will be constantly harrased for simply having a sticker. If you dont think so, you are naive. Are the police suddenly incapable of observing driving behavior? You are the one that needs to get over yourself.

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Stacie Bohr

6:20 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

I feel very badly that you and Mrs. Weeks lost loved ones in automobile accidents. But Mark, I am hardly naive. And don't question my parenting style as you do not know me nor do you know my kids. I am opposed to this and am allowed to be. Just as a perv can look into the window of a car, so can the police. Pull them over if need be. I can tell you this, if my kids break the rules that my husband and I expect to have followed and/or a law that the system implements, they lose the car. I don't need a red tag for that. That is how I parent, not how I "friend". But thank you for the advice.

cv

8:10 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Its just like NYC stop and frisk it will single these kids out not fair.

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Madison Cyclist

8:37 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Incorrect because stop and frisk works.

mark spratley

8:38 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

The police are not singling out anyone in particular simply upholding the law and trying to keep your family alive and well. Bunches of kids in a car causes chaos and distractions. The 17 year old has no experience with driving PLUS without a doubt using their phone talking and texting. This is a good thing for your kids. I tell you what, follow your kid whe they go out and see how long before they are on the phone and filling up the car.

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Denobin

10:06 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

You could follow almost anyone and observe the same thing. I have a better idea, let's make it even easier for the cops by installing a video camera on the inside of everyone's car that automatically transmits to the police. This way, anyone caught distracted driving can be immediatley pulled over and ticketed. Sound good? You should be the first person on line to get it. Let me know how that works out for you.

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Adriana

11:22 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Without a doubt? Wow that's a pretty big assertion there, Mark. True, kids do drive irresponsibly sometimes, but I've seen plenty of grown men in Corvettes weaving in and out of traffic that are just as dangerous. Plus, the idea that it puts teenagers at risk isn't so much when they're in the car, it's when they're parked. If a rapist sees a sticker they can be sure that it will be a young person with only one other person in the car, or none at all, and they can wait for that child to come back to their car.

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Stacie Bohr

8:29 am on Wednesday, August 8, 2012

Maybe the parenting in question is yours. That is, if you have kids.

Sir

8:50 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Mark - how is this a good thing? Please explain. Can the police not simply look through a window to indentify if someone is young or not?

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The Good Guy

8:57 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

They should have a big sticker on the back windshield indicating the number of points the idiot (any age) drivers have on their licenses and how many DUIs they have.

Driving is a privilege, not a right and should be taken away more freely than it is.

I almost got killed by a 17 year old driver going 65 in a 40, near a school in Hillsborough. New drivers should have the red sticker and they should be profiled since they are the ones that cause the most stress and accidents on the road.

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Denobin

10:00 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Because no other driving popluation ever speeds or drives drunk. By your logic, any at risk group, e.g. senior citizens, those with DUI convictions, epileptics, etc. should be made to have these as well. It should be all or none.

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Adriana

11:30 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

I'm interested where you get your information-- new drivers cause the most accidents? take a look at the DOB of the drivers of every accident in Passaic county in 2011. There's a heck of a lot of adults on that list.

http://www.state.nj.us/transportation/refdata/accident/drivers.shtm

teachB-R

9:16 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

I see more adults driving with the red stickers left on their car than teens. Simply put, red stickers will not stop kids from making a poor decision about driving with too many people in the car or driving drunk like the law is supposed to protect.

"hey johnny, I'm hungry let's go get some sonic.".... "Nah, I can't, I have a red decal on my car."..... NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN!!! This law should be repealed and rethought.

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Alec Friedman

9:17 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Mark, I don't think kids are as stupid as you seem to imagine them..

#1. The cops don't give a crap about keeping your family "alive and well" with these stickers. It's money for New Jersey.

#2. Not all teenage driver are irresponsible like you say, nor do they all text while driving. In fact, most 17 year old drivers do not text while they drive because they are still inexperienced, and don't know "the roads".

I can GUARANTEE you that more adult drivers text while driving, simply because they think they are more skilled drivers, and therefor, will not be in an accident.

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Joe videodummy

9:18 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Florida tried a similar "red dot" sticker program back in the late 80's-early 90's. It was intended to identify rental car driver's. The program was stopped after a dozen or so people were targeted over the possibility of carrying expensive luggage and large amounts of cash.
New Jersey is well known for taking a common-sense law and adding something stupid into it, and this is another one of those cases. It's easy to spot these laws because the law has an (S) in the beginning. The letter is the identifier much like the sticker.
This one in particular is discriminatory and dangerous.

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Patch Sucks!

11:33 am on Sunday, September 30, 2012

Is there a petition to have this abomination of a law repealed? If not, let's get one started.

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12345678

9:58 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Mark, drivers should be pulled over based on how they are driving period. Everything else is just feeding the beast as another poster stated.
Kyleigh and the others in the car that night were already breaking laws. Why think MORE laws would make a difference. It's ridiculous. My GDL drivers won't be using them.

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mark spratley

10:10 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Sir:
How can the Police look through a window and determinbe age, this is not a circus and IF they stop someone arbitrarily because they "look" young they will probably get in trouble for thinking not knowing, thus the sticker.
Alec:
The cops do give a crap thats why they became Police Officers, to serve and protect. and if you dont think most 17 year olds are irresponsible you have blinders on or you simply dont want to believe your child is irresponsible, the vast majority are, wake up. Dont believe me follow your kid one time, you'll be surprised. and kids texting and talking your very very naive, sorry your wrong, GUARANTEED !

Cash:
Many have tried to repeal this law, luckily they havent won.

I hope none of you go through a childs death but it will happen to many in every class. ask your children especially older children how many of their friend are gone.

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12345678

10:20 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Mark, auto fatalities happen, red stickers won't stop them.
I see more adults texting and driving than I do teens these days. Maybe we should sticker those who've already been ticketed? Sounds like a better idea than blatantly targeting every teen driver because yours(not meaning yours) didn't obey the laws already in place.

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Denobin

10:21 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

You obviously don't have children, otherwise you would see that this puts kids more at risk and does not solve any problem. If the police do not observe erratic driving, then there is no reason to pull the car over. If the worst issue is that they have too may people in the car, then this is the least of our worries (versus distacted driving, DUI, etc.) I'll tell you what? If any kid gets targeted by a creep becuase of this, we'll send their parents to you to explain how the idiotic sticker "protected" them.
Sorry, YOU'RE worng. Guaranteed! Sanity will win out and
this absolutely stupid, unnecessary law, emotionally motivated law will be repealed.

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12345678

10:23 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

They shouldn't be looking through any windows to determine age, they should be looking at how the driver is driving.....
Kyleigh and Tanner were killed because they were speeding. How would a red sticker have prevented that? If there was an officer in the area, they would have slowed down, not because they had a red sticker, but because they were speeding.

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jpollent

6:58 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

mark, why is it so difficult for PARENTS to make sure their kids follow the law? Why must everyone be burdened by the apparently poor parenting of a few? When I tell my children to obey the law, they either do it or they lose the car or priviledge of driving with friends.

Phyllis Gast

10:11 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

I agree with all of the comments stating this will target our teens. As a mother of two girls now ages 23 and 20 they had gone to school with Kyleigh and the other young people who got into the wreck and it was HORRIBLE.I have the upmost respect for all of the parents and I can understand that Kyleigh's mother believes she is helping the teens and she is also keeping her daughter alive by getting this law passed. Well we all know that unfortunately that will not ever happen. From what I understand the four kids in that car did not make the correct choices that day and were breaking a few law as it was.

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Patrice Schaffer

11:47 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Hi Phyllis... You and I are on the same wave... I can't imagine losing a child but I also have 3 girls who I try so hard to bring up in this world the right way by teaching them to make right choices and know that some of their choices may not be the right ones.. Heck... I've made some pretty bad choices in my life...

I understand we want to protect our children as best as we can but we also have to understand that they will make their choices no matter we think it's right or wrong. No red sticker is going to save these kids lives... why doesn't anyone understand that? Parents need to be there for their kids and help them make the right decisions and if they make bad decisions (or what we think is bad) how to live with that. That's life. That's how we all have to learn. Don't put your kids in a bubble.

FourScore

10:37 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

The issue is that the law simply does not work. Why? Every car that a provisional driver ‘might’ drive must have a sticker on it. This means every car within a family will have this sticker. Soooo, a sticker ‘might’ indicate a provisional driver, but it also might indicate the provisional driver’s parents, older sibling, or anyone else in the family who is not a provisional drive. I’ve seen many cars on the road with these sticker that are definitely NOT driven by provisional drivers. Therefore, the whole purpose of the law, which is to identify provisional drivers, is defeated. Ask any cop about this and he will admit this.

Kyleigh’s Law is once again another ‘feel good’ law that was banged in without a bit of analysis and forethought. Practically, it is mostly worthless.

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jazzman

11:39 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

so ...we can assume that because you are confused to the idea of this little red sticker,all people, including law inforcement must be also...theres no confusement just a simple arrogance and defiance being given by first time drivers that if you dont like a picticular law just dont comply with it,parents with these bad attitudes becomes,,, passing on the right,right on red without hesitation,speeding in 25mph zones.full boat loads of passengers and speeding with all that extra weight the norm,oh and screaming out the windows must be the sideshow,what should happen is The parent should hand the child the little red sticker and let them either acknowledge the law or dont its there choice,if they acknowledge the law they will red sticker and thus follow,if they dont they will not sticker and need not to do anything else,in that sence the red sticker will act as a deterant for all those who sticker giving us better results to the reason for the law,almost forgetting how this all got started....just waiting to read about another a train wreck with a full load driving to get ice cream

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Denobin

11:59 am on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Jazzman:
First, your incoherent raving might be a bit more complelling with judicious use of punctuation. Second, and more importantly, just because something is law does not make that law right. By your statements, no one but teenagers break driving laws, but I don't see you coming up with a solution for that. Sadly, regardless of the useless red sticker, there will be accidents and tragedies; education is what is needed here. However, if there is even one tragedy caused by a teen being victimzed and targeted due to this sticker, it is one too many.
This is what you fail to understand.

Jersey

12:42 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

I don't feel that strongly either way about this law, but I find the reactions by people to be a bit over the top.

I'm not sure that the decals will truly help deter bad driving by young license holders. However, it does help cops identify kids out after curfew or who have too many kids in the car from my understanding. (These are not issues for senior citizens or new drivers of older ages.)

I do think it obviously helps cops profile, which could certainly lead to abuse.

However, I struggle with the idea that this law somehow puts our children in danger of being stalked by pedophiles. If you're a pedophile, isn't it a lot easier to just wait outside a school or mall parking lot, or hang out at a park?

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Denobin

12:47 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Maybe, but now they don't have spend time stalking. They can just walk around a parking lot, spot a decal and wait for their victim to show up. Nothing like making it even easier for creeps. Here is the point: If you're not sure it will help deter bad driving, and if it causes ANY risk to kids, then why do it? It does not wash.
BTW: When it comes to our kids, no protective reaction is over the top. Mess with my kids, I'll show you over the top.

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Linda Sadlouskos

12:52 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Perhaps the legal basis for opposing this might be as a case of profiling, rather than trying to argue that it is an invasion of privacy. What do you think?

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Madison Cyclist

12:59 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Profiling would work if there's evidence it's race based. Otherwise, this is explicit age based profiling and the legislature/courts seem fine with that. Also ask yourself what politician, who wants a prayer of being re-elected, will go on record as sponsoring repeal of a law that "saves young lives"? This turkey will be on the books until something happens that makes is politically expedient to get rid of it.

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Denobin

4:40 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

How about equal protection under the law? Why aren't other high-risk drivers being required to do the same? It's to protect everyone, isn't it? Maybe it's because the teens affected by this can't vote. However, I'm a mighty disgruntled parent right now, and I vote.

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Madison Cyclist

9:29 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Denobin, why not get in touch with your elected representatives and let them know how you feel about this issue.

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Denobin

9:42 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Madison: Thank you, that is a great idea! I have done exactly that in the past concerning this very same issue and I will do so again. Furthermore I would suggest everyone who feels strongly about this issue (either side) do the same.

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Adriana

11:34 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

I actually wrote to the ACLU when this law first came out, and the NJ chapter didn't really say that I didn't have a case, but they said they couldn't handle another cause.

Jersey

1:03 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

I don't think the invasion of privacy argument ever held water. The government grants you a license to use public roads, and that license can be offered only pursuant to specific rules and restrictions. We all have to carry insurance, abide by speed limits, stay hands-free with our cell phones, etc., and no one is arguing invasion of privacy. It's an absurd argument to make. Profiling? That seems to me to carry more water...

Denobin, we'll have to agree to disagree. First of all, I think people are ridiculously paranoid about stalkers/predators/pedophiles because they're wound up over an exaggerated emphasis on these stories in the news. They are sexy headlines that garner high ratings so we see them all the time and assume the whole world iis chalk full of rapists. It's absurd.

Second, I don't think any such criminal will make the determination as to who to victimize based on a sticker on a car. They will size up victims like always - watching and assessing them from a physical and behavioral point of view. Is the argument really that some rapist would be driving down a highway, see a sticker and decide to follow that car to see if they can "get" the driver? Really? I'm unconvinced.

All that said, I should reiterate that I'm not a huge proponent of the law b/c I'm not convinced it will accomplish much. I just think the idea that all 16 year old kids are going to suddenly be targeted by rapists b/c of a sticker on their licenses is preposterous.

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anna m weiss

4:14 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

I have one question, do you have children?

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Denobin

4:37 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Jersey,
Unconvinced? Good! Then leave it to those of us with children to decide what's best for them. You think the idea of stalkers targeting kids with these stickers is preposterous? Well then I hope you never get stalked or carjacked because that never happens, right? Simple risk management principle: The sticker will do more harm than good. Get rid of it. This is me agreeing to disagree with your pathetically weak argument.

jazzman

2:14 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Denobin,sorry but what you dont understand is your idea of a tragedy is not a tragedy,definition of a Tragedy.... law inforcement/ambulance personal arriving at these possible accident scenes with victims throughout the vehicle front and back,rear seat passengers not wearing seatbelts,head traumas, helicopters,Fire dept needing to setting up landing zones...and area EMR personall waiting for all the arrivals possibly understaffed,not to forget any possiblity of loss of life the state sends a investigative team to document /investigate these accidents as a crime scene,photos,video,and measurements thats the scene in my mind,yours argument against is still in the boogieman stage

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Denobin

3:59 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

The bogeyman is the specter of predators and overzelous law enforcement. I can educate my children about the dangers of distracted and driving while imparied; the sticker does nothing for that. You don't get it and never will, that's the tragedy.

Not Again!

3:19 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

A point of clarity – presently the red stickers are Velcro (hook) so they can be removed. There is a white (latch) sticker permanently attached to the plate. So to a trained observer there is still indication that the vehicle at some point is driven by a person with a GDL.

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Dee

3:36 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

I did not put these stickers on my daughter car. I bought them and kept them in the glove box. My daughter 17, working 2 jobs and going to high school and always on honor roll. She is hardly irresponsible. I had her car wired for hands free phone usage. I taught her to not pull over at night if she was afraid but to cal 911 and stay on phone with them until more police were following or she got to the nearest pd. your right Mark I am not her friend. I am her parent. I decided she will not have the stickers. They were on for her road test and they came right off. Tragedy after tragedy happens every day. Two kids just drown in New Brunswick so how long until mandatory swim lessons? How long until someone tells you how old your kid has to be before he can go to the park? 4 kids were just ejected from a car on Rt 80 horrible 2 died A sticker could not have prevented it. Kyleigh should not have died. No child should. I refuse to put my kids at risk because of a mistake that someone else's child did. So many things her mother could have done. Putting MY child at risk was unfair and I will not allow it.

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Denobin

4:00 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Dee,
I could not have said it better. Thank you.

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Jennifer Reid

4:04 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

I did not put these on my daughter's car either. I'm also a parent to my child. I am also well aware that as a 17 year old inexperienced driver, it's easy to get distracted...just like a 75 yr old driver, or a 35 yr old driver. I've taught her to pay attention to others on the road and that the world does not revolve around her. When you are on the road it's your responsibility to make sure you are operating the vehicle in a safe manner. I think it also helped her become aware of how important it is when we were t-boned by a 20 yr old driver who blew thru a stop sign at 9pm at night. She saw first hand how not paying attention can change your life in an instant. It was a good thing we were not critically injured, and eventually we all healed. How would a red sticker stop this guy who was alone, at 9pm, (well within the Kyleigh's Law requirements) but still speeding thru a 25mph zone and failing to stop at a stop sign? Kids are going to make stupid decisions/mistakes. The best you can do as a parent is make your child aware of cause and affect. My daughter knows that once the rules are broken, her privilege of having a car is gone. If she is pulled over just for not having a red sticker on her car, but still following all the rules of the road, then I take responsibility of paying the fine. I will not put my daughter's safety at risk for another person's mistake. There has been a complaint that a girl was pulled over late one night buy someone who was not a cop.

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Patrice Schaffer

3:55 pm on Thursday, August 9, 2012

Great job Dee - Hit it right on the mark. Oh and by the way everyone. My 17 year old just got her license 7/31 and they never once (DMV) asked us for her red sticker, never had put it on the car and it wasn't even in our glove box. She passed her road test and nobody said anything about the red sticker. No it will not be going on her car at all. YUP... I'm the bad mommy - I'm teaching her to break the law.

anna m weiss

4:12 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Why does your age need to be identified? If you do something illegal, the police should pull you over and do whatever is necessary. Your license will tell them how old you are. I really feel strongly about putting a decal on a car to identify a teen driver. Identifies them as young to all the creeps out there! As Dee states all of this because a girl was killed. People are killed in car accidents all the time. It's a part of life. I feel horrible for her Mother. It is a pain you should never have to go through but why punish every other teenager? MADD doesn' t have decals on cars of people that have been arrested for drunk driving do they?

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Dee

4:17 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

People forget about the incident in Mt Olive. A girl was pulled over by a man inpetsonating a police officer Everyone needs to understand there are so many problems and issues in this world today. Forget about Hooatcong. Across the board parents are for the most part teaching their kids right from wrong. I don't need law after law telling me how to raise my kids. I'm sure one of them somewhere down the road are going to make a mistake. There are no perfect parents or kids. I think education would have been a better approach for this woman to take Kids to listen so let's give them some credit. They are not all bad. Kyleigh made a mistake and she paid with her life. Very sad and heart breaking. But enough is enough with these laws named after someone who dies. It was a car accident. Tragic yes but requiring more laws no. No disrespect to kyleighs mother

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12345678

4:29 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Next, it will be a fineable offense if a motorist does not have a GDL and is driving with a red sticker....

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Jersey

4:52 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Anna, yes. I have 2 children. They are not yet of driving age.

Denobin, chill out. Nothing I said warranted such a nasty response unless you have anger management issues with people who have a different opinion from yours.

Know what? Sending your daughter to the mall or a movie might put her at risk for being stalked by a predator. Are you going to keep your kids in a bubble until they're 30?

Look my point is simple: we don't have enough evidence to support the argument that this law will protect kids, and we don't have enough evidence to support that it will harm them. It's a cost benefit analysis without data, only gut feelings - hence my ambivalence. I don't strongly support or oppose the law because we don't know whether it's worth it. But I stand by my personal opinion that people are being paranoid about the stalker/predator issue. Personal opinion despite your disdain for my ability to have one. Sorry.

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Denobin

6:13 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Nasty response? I merely agreed to disagree. Disdain for your comment? Yes. Disdain for your ability to have an opinion? Absolutely not. Last I knew, this is an open forum. I made a suggestion that you have no obligation to follow. You gave your opinion, I gave mine. My comments are as valid as yours despite your disdain for them. Sorry.
Angry? Maybe. Frustrated and passionate about this subject? Definitely.
You are certainly spending a lot of time responding to comments about something that you claim to be "ambivalent" about. Why does my objection to this law rub you the wrong way? Maybe not so ambivalent, are we?
Bottom line is this: If this law increase the chance even one iota that my kids could be victimized due to being labeled, then it is wrong. Even you admit that there could be no counter-benefit. No ambivalence there. That's my personal opinion.

Joe videodummy

5:15 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

The tragedy that caused the death of Kyleigh D'Alessio was the direct result of her breaking the law regarding teenage passengers that were prohibited in a car that was driven by someone with a provisional drivers license. The law that was already in effect allowed 1 passenger. Kyleigh was riding with multiple teenage passengers when the accident that caused her death occured.
The current law wasn't re written, it was re named Kyleigh's Law after the mother pleaded for "sticker's" to be placed on the tags of all provisional driver's cars. Her mother Donna Weeks requested orange stickers because it was her favorite color. Kyleigh had already died her hair orange and dorned a nose earring.
The democratic legislators heard arguements that appealed to evoking the compassion of the politican's, as teary eyed Donna Weeks claimed the law would prevent further teenage accidents from happening.
The stickers will not teach teenagers anything about the law, or instill any new sense of responsibility towards driving or being a multiple passenger in a vehicle that is being operated by a provisional licensed driver. Therefor, Kaleighs fate would not have changed if the car had them or not.
Proper education and responsibility don't need stickers to prevent tragic accidents.

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pamela a

5:48 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

I am not for the "sticker" or aganist it, why dont we teach young and old; texing and chatting on the cell phone casues accident which could take a life! When will a cell phone company make a phone that goes silent when you plug it into your adapter while driving..car computers are so smart it could disable your phone while in gear! that would save a life....OR lets educate all our children, again "young and old" about the danger of drugs...that appears to be more of an issue from what i read in the papers, a sticker, what is that going to do? give it some thought........

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Denobin

7:29 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Here's one for everybody: How about we put a silver sticker on senior citizens license plates? You know, just to make sure that they're not having a stroke or heart attack. Don't worry that they may become the target of a mugging or carjacking because they are old. It's for everyone's safety!
How about requiring that you put a sticker on your rear when you're carrying more that $1000 in cash? Why not? This way the police can check to make sure you're not a drug dealer. Don't worry, no one will try to rob you. It's for everyone's safety!
Would you put a sign on your car that says your teenage daughter is alone in the car?
Of course not, but this law would have you do the equivalent.
BTW: Our esteemed Star-Ledger has an op-ed piece today in support of the supreme court decision. Why doesn't everyone write in and let them know how you feel?

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Jersey

9:21 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Denobin: I thought your comment that my "argument" (actually, an opinion, I wasn't really arguing) was "pathetically weak" was nasty. I also was a little offended at your insinuation that I don't have kids (I do) and that those without kids should let the others make the decisions (really?).

I'm a lawyer. I tend to look at these types of issues more logically than emotionally, which sometimes pisses off very emotional people. I haven't read the decision yet but I suspect the court found no invasion of privacy (which I agree with) from a legal standpoint. That doesn't mean it's a good law. Just that it's Constitutionally permissible. People often miss that nuance (see the recent healthcare decision).

For the record, I'd actually be as ok with senior stickers as I am with teen ones. But again, I'm really not in favor of any of it as I doubt the program does enough good to negate the harm (let's say, embarrassment, red tape and potential for profiling - even aside from your rapist concerns). And frankly it's a little Big Brother-ish to me.

But perhaps at the root of my lack of anger towards the law is that I firmly believe our children are far more at risk of dying in a car accident than being stalked, raped and/or killed by a deranged pedophile. So there you go.

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Denobin

9:37 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Jersey,
Very well reasoned. I agree with your assertion that the chances of them getting into a car accident are greater than being stalked, all else being equal. However, both the editorial and others have admitted that this program would do nothing to prevent teen drivers from doing stupid things; this is where education comes in. At the same time, the risk does increase, however minuscule, that it could make them a target for a creep. Maybe what I'm having trouble figuring is exactly how, in the balance, this materially improves the situation.
And you are right, "pathetically weak" was unnecessarily harsh. Please allow that this was an impassioned response from a concerned parent. I enjoy the open dialog of this forum and I don't want to be the cause of anyone turning away from it.

Denobin

7:40 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Excerpt from Star_Ledger piece: "The red decals don't make teen drivers safer, but they are the best tool that police have to spot teen drivers and enforce safe-driving laws. The more tickets written, the more word will spread that those laws should be taken seriously." So there you have it. This is not about protecting our kids, it's solely about making it easier to write tickets. Thank you for the honesty, Star-Ledger editor.

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CHB

8:07 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

I belive that the stickers could put my daughter in danger quite simply why risk it

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Jersey

9:43 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Denobin, we're good. Thanks for your consideration and please know that I truly understand where you're coming from.

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Denobin

9:46 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Same to you and thanks. And I will try to be more logical ;-)

Dee

10:19 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

I don't think it should have been argued as a violation of privacy. It isn't. What it if anything, I would say, would be some sort of discrimination not sure if it would be age or possibly sex discrimination? I only say that because even though boys are targets, women are statistically at a disadvantage of an assault. It isn't a proper way to uphold the laws. None of this was necessary when I was driving. We had kids due in school from car accidents. Think of something else to uphold the law. Remember when the seatbelt law first came out? You could not be pulled over for just not wearing one. But you could get a ticket if you were not wearing one and pulled over for something else. I feel for this girls mother I really do but I don't agree with it. I am more afraid of the drunk driver that might be next to me than a kid who has a GDL.

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Pam Fischer

10:27 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

The #1 killer of teens is car crashes, not predators, not drugs, not suicide... it's car crashes. The best "proven" tool we have for addressing this is Graduated Driver Licensing (studied around the world), which puts in place provisions that restrict teens from doing those things that cause them the greatest risk (distraction caused by their peers, driving at night, using electronic devices). However, if these provisions aren't enforced -- and teens know without an identifer police can't enforce them -- there will be teens who simply violate the law. While GDL enforcement has to start at home, once a teen driver is on the road it's up to law enforcement to intervene if they violate these provisions and put themselves and others at risk (60% of people who are injured or killed by teen drivers are other roadway users). This concept of identifying novice drivers via decal or placard has been used in other countries (UK, Canada, Australia, Germany, Japan) for years without incident. It not only aids with enforcement, but alerts other drivers a novice is on the road. My son will be taking his driving test next week -- we have the decals on our cars and they'll remain until he's fully licensed. Yes, I'm the chief enforcer of GDL, but I want him stoppped and cited if he violates the law. Rather he get a ticket, then I get a knock on my front door. Extreme? Yes, but it's my job to ensure he survives the most dangerous thing he'll do in his teen years -- drive.

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Peppermint Patti

10:53 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Total agree that it puts the kids in danger of predators and also law enforcement that are not quite the most honest people. Also, I really think its not the governments business how old the people driving the car is. I would be worried about someones daughter or son. The cops around here don't have enough to do but harass our kids plus its just revenue for the town. I'm glad my kids are old enough that this doesn't apply. My son was stopped on Beekman lane at the time he was 17 and his hair was about to his shoulder, it was about 11:45pm and was about 1 mile from home and was stopped he asked why he was stopped the cop told him because he didn't have his high beams on. Cop took his credentials went back to his car came back in a min or two and told him to go home. When he came home told us about it and all of us were all very confused WHY must you have your high beams on. So I call the station in the morning and the cop ran his plates and
told me no one ever ran them the night before and they asked us if he saw the car # or name of cop and my son didn't. Needless to say you think the cop thought he was pulling over a girl late at night on a very dark section of the road. Hummmm what do you think was up with that. The cop total didn't follow procedure. we need to protect our kids, not the government.

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oldsoldier

6:27 am on Wednesday, August 8, 2012

For those of you who disagree with this law, I agree with you. I believe it does make our children easier targets for predators. However, many of you claiming to be "parents" that use bad or bored cops as your excuse to be against the law puzzle me. I think some of you are the children who were stopped. I cannot believe any self-respecting parent would come here to protest their child being stopped by the police and automatically asserting their child is right. Also, the privacy rights argument is stupid, in my opinion. Why don't you look at the facts of the tragic accident? The accident happened around 8:30pm. Why not question how limiting the time a minor is allowed to drive to 1200am would have prevent the very accident that started all this? In my opinion, this is yet another example of laws being passed to compensate for a lack of parental involvement. How many fatal accidents involving minors would have been prevented if parents "just said no", or drove the minors themselves, or checked on the minors frequently? You should stop blaming the police, and look to yourselves for the answers. I also agree with the position that if minors have to have a sticker, then the elderly should too. I do not beleive that will happen though, because the elderly vote, minors do not. But you as parents should vote, and look at the politicians who support these kind of laws and decide if this is what you want or not.

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Stacie Bohr

7:45 am on Wednesday, August 8, 2012

What kind of sticker should be put on the back of a police car of an officer who I saw driving the other day while on his cell phone? And I've seen that more than once.

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The "Original" Hopatcong Mom

7:46 am on Wednesday, August 8, 2012

I think the law does BOTH, makes it easier for police to "harrass" as well as making them an easy target!

First, I do not think a teenager will change the way they drive because they have a sticker, so an accident is an accident regardless!

I do not think a red sticker is going to make anyone feel safer on the road....it just makes it easier for a pedophile to identify their car and I am not saying following this person....I would be more worried if the teen works at the mall or a fast food place or movie theatre (any job that gets out after dark)....all a pedophile would have to do is cruise the parking lot looking for red stickers and then just wait for the teenager to get to their car....surprise (a tragedy occurs)!

When my children are of driving age, they WILL NOT get the stickers and if they need them for the test, I will scrape them off afterwards!

My children will not a be a victim of profile or circumstance!!

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Kimberly

7:58 am on Wednesday, August 8, 2012

I think the law is total age discrimination!!

I have seen some adults and senior citizens driving far more worse than teenagers!

If you are going to require red stickers for teens, then you might as well do blue for the 20's, yellow for the 30's, green for the 40's and black for anyone over 50!!

My children WILL NOT be using the stickers....I will not make them a target for police or pedophiles!!

Straight from the Kyleigh's Law appeals: "The young drivers subject to (Kyleigh's Law) have no reasonable expectation of privacy in their age group because a driver's age can generally be determined by his or her physical appearance, which is routinely exposed to public view."

That's right....look in the car to see their age....if they are in a moving violation of some kind, then you should be able to "see" their age! Red stickers are just to "promote" lazy cops!!

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Matt Profaci

12:47 pm on Saturday, August 11, 2012

Legislation on these things still exists? I think that it is a de facto agreement by everyone in this state, including police, that they are completely irrelevant and ineffective. More moms with teens drive with these things on their plates than actual kids do.

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